The Worst Trend Setter

I feel disgusting.
Like I am wearing a coat of stress and guilt.
It feels awful…gross….like an itchy thrift store sweater.
I will admit, it is my fault for trying on this texture, but does this material of life ever get better?
I do not trust my choices all too often..
I tend to go for worn, vintage, holy and feathered..
I’m sick of the feeling and I need a stylist
Please God will you help make my wardrobe better

Sincerely Yours,

The Worst Trend Setter

Altruistic Intention

I want to perfect my soul so that I can be of love and light unto others…
I want to be a positive infection, not an Ebola biotch! Feel me on this one?
I want to help others and I cannot do that unless I help myself
I want to give my all and my best to this world, nothing less



DJ Pat Allen

An amazing Inspirational House DJ and a personal friend from the SF Bay Area!
I met him at an open mic and after performing he invited me to be apart of his first annual Sent From Above Musik Festival back in June! I had a great time on stage! I loved the lighting and sound. It was perfect!


Be sure to check out his Soundcloud! He has the dopest house/ dance mixes! Perfect for cleaning and working out. Gets you in the zone!

Problems with Steve Harvey’s 90 Day (Sex) Rule


I concur! Although I do agree with Harvey that waiting for sex does reduce your chances of wasting your time with a user and/or loser.

Originally posted on August McLaughlin's Blog:

“Ask any guy if sex is important in a relationship and the one who says no is lying. I just haven’t met that guy yet. When you meet him, let’s get him into the Smithsonian – he’s that special and rare.” – Steve Harvey, Act Like a Lady, Think Like A Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy and Commitment (Harper Collins, 2009)

Actually, there’s probably something wrong with that man—and sex is important to women, too.

Much has been said about the sexism of Harvey’s book  and derivative film (which isn’t merely sexist, apparently, but homophobic). As his talk show continues to gain success, having recently kicked off a new season, I felt compelled to weigh in.

Before I do, I should say that Harvey seems like a likable guy. He’s witty, contagiously upbeat and seems to genuinely care about the issues he addresses in his…

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Emotional Abuse

It sucks.
No one deserves to feel this way..
Manipulated and blamed for everything.
It’s the put downs & name calling.
The abuser is the power tripper, the ego blaster and the negative wordsmith…
Leverage is a handy tool and the private weaknesses you’ve revealed thrown right in your face.
The throwing of words and phrases that don’t even apply..
The feeling of powerlessness..
The hope fading..
The trap forming..
The shining light of apologies strewn amongst torturous periods guilt and shame.

Ideal Friendship.

I don’t think anyone who genuinely loves a person, would ditch them in their down time.
As messed up as it is, most people will not be there in your time of need.
You always hear the story of the 1 friend who was there during your hospitalisation, or when your dad died, or when you had no one else..
That’s amazing, that’s selflessness.

This is the kind of real and true friendship that I aspire to have…
Not always needing this type of support, but to know that I have that if ever needed….is a comforting feeling to have in a friend.
The ones that are the best have your back no matter what.
No excuses!